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Early Spring 2011 - Break Away From the Herd

Dear Friends

Leave it to my dad to find enlightenment from a herd of one-track rabbits. Eons ago when he drove one of those open-car, hand-cranked railcars for the Milwaukee Railroad (Hello, Elmer Fudd?!), he said that rabbits would get on the track in front of him, and once they started running, they couldn't seem to figure out that all they had to do was jump off the track to avoid their demise. I don't know if my dad realized what a powerful life lesson he imparted with this story, but it's about the best metaphor for life a dad could share with his daughter.

Just as life never pans out for rabbits running from trains, it doesn't fare too well for us when we've got railcars of pettiness, negativity, and -- well, you fill in the blanks -- heading our way. I don't know what motivates rabbits to continue in their folly, but I have an inkling of what compels us as people. Long before wheels and railcars were invented, group survival was where it was at, and I still fall prey to its siren song of 'there’s safety in numbers' as well as that strong desire to be 'included' and the fear to change.

In that sense, it takes a brave bunny to break away from the herd (especially when that herd is its family of origin!). But I've found life is so much sweeter when we take a daily look at the track we're on, our traveling companions, and what we have stuffed in our brain's baggage compartment. Over the years, I've learned that if it looks like a train, sounds like a train, and smells like a train, it's my cue to take the nearest exit. There's no need to hurl insults at the rabbits who choose to remain, or throw rotten eggs on the railcar, track, or conductor. Just get yourself off the track now. Refuse to spend one more minute of your precious life huffing and puffing in order to stay out of harm's way. You'll never out-run a moving locomotive, and it's no fun trying.

Truly, life is too short to settle for being steamrollered by anyone or anything. It's a new year. The next time someone in your life wants to engage in drama, trauma, or just plain petty meanness, choose to get off the track! You can do it. A beautiful world of unlimited possibilities awaits you. Wishing you all a Happy New Year and Happy Trails!




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