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Parenting Through Connection Instead of Coercion
Pam Leo

I marvel at the simplicity and depth of this book's message. ''Is my parenting or caregiving creating connection or disconnection with this child?'' When connection is present, a child is happier, more at ease, more co-operative, and lighter in energy. And so are we. When the way we have interacted creates disconnection, a child is unhappy, has tantrums, refuses to go along, acts out in anger toward others, or is afraid. It seems so obvious, but most of us parent the way we were parented, unless we bring a lot of consciousness and presence to what we are doing.

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This book is full of compassion, and infinitely practical. Our most important parental task is to create a strong and lasting bond of love with our children. Every other task hinges on this one. So, we have to learn to connect first with ourselves, to understand our own feelings and needs. Then, we parent with respect, for respect is the foundation of connection. We teach respect by modeling respect. We listen deeply to our children's feelings, and learn how to decode behavior into ''needs'' (based on Non-Violent Communication skills). We learn to communicate in ways that maintain connection. (Shouting, threatening, and punishment break connection, for example.) There are questions and exercises to help, as well as ways to work with the material in supportive circles with others. If every child was raised like this, we could create a peaceful world!

(Ages: Adult)

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